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65: Notes To Self
Conversation Pits, Bees & Flies, Experience of Femininity, Definition of Masculinity, Dance w/ The Music of Life!
Yo, it’s Luke!
Here’s a new Fred again banger I heard the other day. Also, HAPPPY FRIDADDAYYY LFGGG!!!!
That said, here is your weekly dose of 5 noteworthy ideas & things I learned about last week. Click on the blue links to dive further on that topic.

Neeeeed more conversation pits in houses.
Should be standard for a 3 bed.
When I’m rich, I’ll build one (and invite y’all over!)
As a guiding principle, the notion that 'bees don't waste their time explaining to flies that honey is better than shit' has helped me filter out a lot of opinions.
— Ana Mostarac (@anammostarac)
2:16 AM • Oct 3, 2023
The States could learn a lot from this.
But, we gotta understand where the other side is coming from AND how they formed their beliefs.
As we dig deeper into our own media bubbles, genuine curiosity in other perspectives gets rarer. Same with empathy for different viewpoints.
So, these two qualities (curiosity + empathy) will become more and more valuable as time goes on...maybe even superpowers.
Chef’s kiss on this explanation.
“You feel like she embraces/increases beauty in all of her sorroundings and improves the feeling/energy of the room.
You also feel how people are usually put at ease by her kindness and ability to connect with people, as well as to help others connect among them and develop their relationships.
You can also feel and see how she genuinely takes care of people.”
On that note, here’s one of the best descriptions of “masculinity” I’ve ever read.

It’s paragraphs like these that remind me why Watts sparked the counter-cultural revolution in the US.
What a legend.

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Cheers,